Defeating
Nervousness
If you
are affected by driving test nerves then the first thing to
remember is that you are not alone. Driving test nerves
affect the majority of learner drivers, the overwhelming
majority of whom will eventually go on to pass their
driving test's.
The
second point to remember is that you shouldn't be taking
your practical driving test unless your Instructor thinks
you are capable of passing. The expert thinks you're ready.
The expert thinks you're capable. Already you have a vote of
confidence from someone who
matters.
Why do
you feel nervous? What consequences do you fear? Is it for
your safety on the road? If it is then don't worry, you're
in a dual controlled car with a professional Driving Test
Examiner. They know the game and they know how to play it.
They know how to deal with you and any mistakes you may
make.
Maybe
your nerves stem from the fear that if you fail your test
you'll let your friends and family down. If so then sod
them. Don't tell them.
In some
people exams of any sort can cause nerves and anxiety to
rise. If this is you then put your driving test in context.
It's a lot easier to retake a driving test than it is your
GCSE's or A-Levels. The main loss of a failed driving test
is financial, several more lessons and the cost of a second
test.
Take
your nerves on by accepting them. Nerves can be positive.
They tell the body to release adrenaline which helps keep
you alert and focused. Use nerves to your advantage and they
will increase your performance.
Turn
the day to your advantage. When are you at your best? If
you're a morning person then make sure you book your driving
test for a morning start. If it takes you until noon to
"wake-up" then make sure you book an afternoon
test.
Never
book a driving test during a time when you know other
stressful events will be happening.
Arrive
at the driving test Centrex unhurried and at least 15
minutes before your test is due to start.
There
are many techniques/remedies that claim to ease nerves and
anxiety. From herbal remedies such as Kalms tablets to
psychological techniques such as visualization and even
hypnosis. Do any of these work? Well maybe. I myself have no
first hand or even second hand experience that any of them
do work so I won't be recommending any.
One
technique I can recommend however is 4-7-8 breathing.
Breathing correctly can have a profound effect on the way
you feel. It is widely considered to be the most effective
and time efficient relaxation method that
exists.
The
standard breathing relaxation method recommended for your
natural breathing pattern is:
1.
Breathe
into your diaphragm, (the bottom of your stomach), not
shallow chest breathing
2.
Inhale through the nose
3.
Exhale through the mouth
4. Take
longer to exhale than to inhale
5. Slow
your breathing down (less breaths-per-minute)
4-7-8
breathing simply adds:
1.
Begin by slowly breathing in through your nose for a count
of 4.
2. Hold
the breath for a count of 7.
3.
Slowly exhale through your mouth for a count of 8. When you
exhale, try to make a soft whoosh sound by holding the tip
of your tongue against the roof of your mouth (or lightly
clench your teeth) as you exhale slowly.
4.
Repeat this process for three more times (for a total of
four breaths.) Do not do more than four breaths at first -
with practice, you can work your way up to eight breaths. Do
this twice each day.
4-7-8
breathing shouldn't be your naturally breathing pattern but
should be used to calm nerves and find a more relaxed state
of mind at or before times of increased
anxiety.
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